Monday, December 28, 2009

Naughty & Nice


All these pictures were taken at Scott's Santa party at his work early in December.
You better watch out
You better not cry
Better not pout
I'm telling you why
Santa Claus is coming to town
He's making a list
And checking it twice;
Gonna find out Who's naughty and nice
Santa Claus is coming to town
He sees you when you're sleeping
He knows when you're awake
He knows if you've been bad or good
So be good for goodness sake!
O!
You better watch out!

You better not cry

Better not pout
I'm telling you why
Santa Claus is coming to town
Santa Claus is coming to town



If Santa Claus was real and had been watching my kids night and day here are some things he would have seen them do during the month of December. The question is, would he leave them stockings full of fun gifts and sweet goodies or give them coal and reindeer poop?

Nice Julianna: Singing twinkle twinkle little star, and singing Jingle Bells. Giving us all hugs and kisses. Snuggling and playing nicely with the kids. Sharing her food with Lucy ;) "Helping Mommy" with her chores!
Julianna's new favorite sitting spot is INSIDE the fridge.

Naughty Julianna: Learning to hit her siblings, in the face, quite hard sometimes. Biting mama. Screaming to get what she wants. Throwing fits. Running away at diaper time. Sitting inside the refrigerator. Pulling Mommy's hair really really hard! Needing time outs when she cries and screams on and on and on for no good reason!

Nice Angel: Giving hugs and pats and telling us she loves us. Playing nicely with her sisters. Being kind to Julianna. Whenever Julianna cries, Angel hugs her and sings her favorite song "Twinkle Twinkle Little Star". Helping Mommy in the kitchen. Being cute: Whenever you ask "How are you" she answers "I'm Three!" Doing kind favors for other members of the family without being asked. Being the Angel of the family!

Naughty Angel: Not eating her dinner, but asking for dessert, and then crying at bedtime inconsolably because she's "HUNGRY!". Wetting the bed, after we had tried to wake her up in the middle of the night to go, but she refused. Throwing fits in the car because she doesn't want to let anyone buckle her. Kicking me when I'm trying to help her get dressed for the day.


Nice Courtney: Playing nicely with Julianna. Doing helpful jobs around the house for Mommy without asking. Once she did all the dishes after baking cookies (by hand! by herself!) Doing kind acts of service. Helping in the kitchen. Playing well with Christopher. Being thoughtful to her friends. Playing quietly during quiet time. Using her "sunshine smile" to bring us happiness! Cleaning up her own spills with a good will.

Naughty Courtney: Jumping off of furniture, jumping on beds, climbing up bookshelves, doing other dangerous dare-devil things like standing on top of the plastic play kitchen's highest point and then claiming "I forgot!" when we remind her of the no jumping/no climbing rule. Scaring Angel on purpose("Angel, there's hot Lava in this house!" and Angel believes her!). Fighting with Dorathy. Sneaking candy before breakfast. Asking "Why is it ALWAYS me?" Whenever we ask her to do something.

Nice Dorathy: Doing all her jobs without being asked, so quickly, and with a good attitude. Helping in the Kitchen. Taking Angel potty for me. Taking good care of Julianna"babysitting". Reading quietly during quiet time. Making nice arts and crafts as presents for other people. Being a good friend. Thinking of others.
Naughty Dorathy: Fighting and crying when she doesn't get her way. Complaining about food she doesn't like. Eating her boogers. Pinching Courtney...really...really HARD! Stealing Courtney's blanket and then hiding it from her. Trying to punish her younger sisters for minor infractions when I'm not looking. Staying up late till 10 O'clock reading books when she's suppose to have lights out at 8 p.m.

Nice Christopher: Taking good care of me when I sprained my wrist. Telling me to "rest" and "go read a book, Mom!" and "I'll take care of it, Mom, don't worry!" Being so happy to "babysit" the younger girls. Putting his sisters to bed. Putting on silly plays and telling stories. Changing diapers and helping the little ones get dressed. Making his sisters laugh when they are sad. Running errands for Mom & Dad. Doing extra chores and acts of service. Being a great helper to Dad. Being a good sport when he doesn't win a game. Having such integrity and strength of conscience.

Naughty Christopher: Arguing with lawyer-like precision on exactly why he SHOULDN'T have to do the dishes or clean his room. Begging for computer games and playdates when he hasn't earned them. Crying, whining, and pouting when things don't go his way. Being Angry. Saying "Why Me?" when I ask him for help.

I guess to be fair, I should post when I am naughty and nice, right?!?

Nice Laura: Not yelling at the kids when they aren't listening. Disciplining them with patience and love. Practicing What I preach instead of being a hypocrite. Being true to what I say (consistency!) instead of falling through. Reading them lots and lots of books. Letting them help in the kitchen and do all sorts of projects, even when it makes a huge mess. Getting up early and being organized so that the day runs smoothly for everyone. Cooking good nutritous food. Planning playdates and other fun family outings. Letting the kids be kids instead of demanding perfection and driving everyone, including myself, crazy.

Naughty Laura:
Staying up too late at night, and then being grumpy and short tempered. Reading fun books instead of cleaning house. Letting the car get so messy it has become thoroughly scary. Sleeping in and then having a sloppy day. Eating too many sweets and then getting a sugar headache. Yelling at the kids when I should just put myself in a time out. Not being sweet and affectionate to my husband like he deserves.

Nice Scott: Changing all of Julianna's stinky diapers for me when he's at home. Cooking dinner for me and all the kids before he leaves for work. Playing with all the kids. Putting up with my nagging. Patiently teaching the kids something new. Taking great care of me and being an all around terrific husband and provider.

Naughty Scott: Wanting to stay in his pajamas all day and play computer games!


Hhhmmmmmm.......I guess I'm glad Santa Claus isn't out there watching us all the time. I think all of us would have made both the naughty and nice lists! But I'd like to think that the good won out over the bad! No Coal this year!


I sure am glad that God is always watching over us with his tender mercies and that he loves us despite all our faults and weaknesses! We all have the light of Christ in us ( our conscience!) and a divine nature within (our heritage from our Heavenly Father) which enables us to use our moral agency to overcome the "natural man" and make good decisions. I am so grateful for the Saviour's atonement which allows us to repent when we make mistakes (since I'm making them daily...no, hourly!) But I know, that as long as we are all doing our best day by day, we are on God's "Nice" list....and that's good enough for me!

Sunday, December 27, 2009

Meet Thankful

I know I haven't blogged hardly at all these last 2 months. Been busy with kids, books, and other projects! I probably won't be blogging too much in the next month either, because I'm starting some very exciting projects at home! I am finally getting to work in compiling all the information I've been gathering for years about Marlene Stoker Dotson. (Scott's Mom who pas

But, I just wanted to introduce you to Ms.Thankful Dotson, our Gratitude Turkey.



During the Thanksgiving Holidays, we made this turkey, and everyday we posted some feather on her back and wrote on them what we were thankful for. It really helped us feel an increased sense of Gratitude during the Thanksgiving Season, and it was a great segue into the Holidays.

The kids were sad when we finally had to take her down!

My Top 10 favorite things about Christmas!

My Top Ten Favorite things about the Christmas Season!

1. Christmas Caroling withmy family to neighbors and friends.

2. Christmas music playing in the house morning, noon, and night.

3. An excuse to bake all kinds of treats, and even better excuses to eat them all!

4. Having a great time getting and making things for the people you love.

5. Decorating cookies with the kids. Reading Christmas stories to the kids!

6. Having work, church, and family parties to attend. I got to see some excellent Christmas performances as well, including a play of THE CHRISTMAS CAROL.

7. Being inspired to find ways to serve others.

8. Listening to the Messiah, and pondering the life and mission of Jesus Christ.

9. Taking the extra time to spend with family and the people we love most.

10. Feeling extra close to the Savior, and experiencing the sweetness the Christmas Spirit brings as we focus on all those things that are truly the most important. I wish I could remember that all year long!

This has been our best Christmas yet! In past years, I have been so ready for Christmas to be over. But this year, I wish it would never end! Perhaps I have finally discovered the true meaning of Christmas...it only took me 33 years!

Christmas Family Letter 2009

I sent this letter out to lots of family and friends, but I wanted to post it here as well!

MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!


Dear Family, Friends, and Neighbors:

We hope this letter finds each of you happy, healthy, and well. This has been a busy year for us, filled with a multitude of blessings. The seasons come and go so swiftly, and I find myself surprised to be sitting down once more to write out our yearly family missive. This past year has seen many troubling changes in our nation; economic challenges abound. We have felt, however, a tremendous spirit of thankfulness entering our home as we realize more fully the many things we have to be grateful for. So in my letter this year, I wanted to share some of these blessings with you all!

Homeschooling: Everyday I find myself so grateful for the adventure of teaching my children at home. It has blessed me more than anyone else as I have fallen in love with learning all over again. My children have sent me on quests for truth. When my children ask me a question that I don’t know, we research it together till we are satisfied. Libraries are our favorite haunts. My children love learning; they choose to fill their free time with great books. The best thing to do with a great classic is share it with someone you love! Our evenings are filled with reading our favorite stories together. I love having my kids at home with me. I get to know my children’s strengths and weaknesses in a way that would not be possible if the bulk of their learning were delegated elsewhere. We have enjoyed Science Fairs, a History Girls Club, a Science Boys club I organized for Christopher, and an incredible array of fantastic field trips. We have just completed 2 years of intense world history study, and we are excited to be moving into American History in 2010. My children now dream of touring Europe. They have been enchanted with the Renaissance, and they fantasize about saving up a few thousand dollars so they can see the great works of Michelangelo in person. Anyone have any great fundraiser ideas?

Living in the Great Northwest: Instead of traveling to distant alluring tourist attractions, this year we chose to use our vacation time to embark on several camping trips within a day’s drive of home. We have discovered all over again the beauty and majesty of the Great North West. We spent a week in the Redwoods, camped at the beach, and saw the Oregon Caves. We enjoyed picturesque Astoria with its museums, historical points of interest, and nearby beaches. We spent a week touring many of the Cascade volcanoes, including Mt. St. Helens and Mt. Rainier. We even hiked in a lava tube! Then Scott and I got to take a trip all by ourselves to Central Oregon. Scott adores the High Desert in the Bend area. We saw so many beautiful vistas, including the Three Sisters and Newberry National Volcanic park, that I plan on making another trip there next year. There was too much to see in only one visit! Other benefits of living in the paradise we call home are: wonderful gardens, bounteous flowers and fruit, Scott’s Beekeeping endeavors, all the berries you can eat, fun beach trips, clean mountain air, lots of wildlife, and a cool breeze even in the hottest summer days. It’s the positive side to having 6 months or more of rain per year!

Family: Our life revolves around family. It is such a joy to watch our children learn, grow, and progress. I have seen them grow in maturity as they learn to work together at home. I appreciate how well the older kids take care of the littlest sisters. Christopher is becoming babysitting age! (Scott and I feel like we have finally ARRIVED...oh, what a state of bliss!) I’m filled with sweet satisfaction when I see how good he is at caring for his 4 younger sisters. Christopher is still in love with science, music, & reading. He’s my Mr. Fix-it when Scott isn’t around. He loves getting into deep discussions with his cousin, Sanford, and coming up with new theories about how the universe works. Those two boys make very convincing philosophers. At 11, he says he is in no hurry to grow up, and wants to enjoy being a “kid”for as long as possible.
Dorathy turned 8 this year and got baptized!!! She continues to write new books, poems, and music. She creates cards, designs dinner menus, and researches recipe books for every occasion. She is determined to grow up to be a great artist, composer, baker, singer, and author. She writes collections of books and then “publishes” them (spiral binds them) and puts them on her bookshelf. Dorathy says that someday she’ll have a whole bookshelf of stories authored by herself. If anyone can pull it off, she can!
Courtney (6) is a cute tom-boyish princess who loves animals, art, gymnastics, and all things pink. She is progressing in learning to read and write. She knows the names of all the birds and fishes in her books better than I do! Courtney has a keen interest in life all around her; no detail escapes her. She is a great help in the kitchen, and loves to stick around to wash the pans after we finish baking cookies.
Angel (3) is still the “Angel” of the household, bringing sweet smiles, cuddles, and coquettish looks wherever she goes. It’s been fun to watch her imagination bloom. Angel’s world is alive with magic and wonder, but for her sensitive mind, it is also filled with fears whether real or imagined. She is Mommy’s little follower, and she stays within arms reach almost all day long.
Julianna (18months) has become a toddler at last, but she is still the baby of the family! She is so much happier now than when she was a baby. She loves being independent and free. She learned to walk very late, and is now making up for lost time by running, climbing, and taking apart EVERYTHING! It takes about 60 seconds for her to turn an organized room into complete chaos. The kids call her babyzilla. She has curly blond hair, sparkling blue eyes and is filled with all kinds of impish mischief. She is as quick as lightening at getting into trouble, so I have to watch her every minute. Even though Julie can talk, crying and screaming (LOUD AND HIGH) are still her preferred methods of communication.
Scott and I are pressing forward in trying to learn what it means to be good parents, mentors, and leaders. We are all works in progress, and our goal is take joy in the journey! We desire to apply the principles of Leadership Education in our home. (www.tjedonline.com) Scott has been blessed with continued steady employment, and I love the privilege of being a stay-at-home-Mom. If you would like to see some great family pictures and learn more of what we’ve been up to in 2009, please check out our family blog. (www.littlehouseinthebignorthwest.blogspot.com)

The Gospel of Jesus Christ: Finally and most importantly, we are so thankful for our Savior Jesus Christ and the atonement he wrought for all mankind. We are continually blessed by His unconditional love and the innumerable gifts that he so freely bestows on us. We have a beautiful world to live in which he created for us, his children. We have His words of peace and wisdom in the scriptures. We treasure His supreme example of a life of love and service.
May you all be filled with love and joy as you celebrate the birth
of our Lord and Savior this Christmas Season!
Love, The Dotsons
( Scott, Laura, Christopher, Dorathy, Courtney, Angelia, & Julianna)

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

The Joys of a Wood Burning Stove!





I am SO grateful for our wood burning stove!

We are SO blessed to get near-free heat all winter long! I don't know how we could afford to heat our house otherwise. We'd probably keep the thermostat at 55 and then walk around in our coats all day long.

One of the best parts of using wood for your heat is that your kids get a chance to have a meaningful chore. It is so good for them to be responsible to bring in the logs and kindling everyday. They have a real chance to contribute to the whole family, and that is a rare opportunity nowadays.

We recently (early December) experienced a severe cold snap that set record lows. It hadn't been that cold in Oregon since 1998! We had a long 2 weeks of days were the highs brushed 35 degrees, and it would dip down to 9 degrees at night. It was clear, not a drop of snow in sight, but we did see lots of ice. Every morning the dew would freeze, crystals of ice glittered on rooftops and on the leaves of our rhododendrons. My kids delighted in finding icicles everywhere.

There was this one patch of continual ice on the sidewalk down the street where a neighbor had the automatic sprinklers on everyday. A large part of the side walk as well as portions of the street had a good inch or two of ice on it. My kids called it the ice skating rink, and had a ball slipping across it.

Then Christopher came up with the grand idea of filling the kiddie pool with water and letting it freeze over so he could really ice skate. Thankfully, all our hoses were frozen solid, and so he couldn't get any water into the pool. I caught him dumping huge bowlfuls of water all over our back patio in trying to get his own ice play area. After being severely chastised, he was down in the dumps for the rest of the day. The cold clear weather was beautiful, but my kids were just LONGING for snow! (they didn't get it!)

The annoying part of the cold was having to defrost frozen rabbit water bottles twice a day. Christopher would have to collect all the frozen water bottles and soak them in hot water till eveyrthing melted far enough for the poor rabbits to get a drink. My kids would beg to got outside and play, and then come back in after 5 minutes with purple fingers and numb toes. (You can tell we are spoiled with mild weather...we almost never even need gloves!)

In this kind of freeze, wood heat can only do so much. Even with keeping the fires roaring all day, we were always cold. If I sat still too long, my toes began to get numb. When the cold snap finally broke, our house felt like a furnace!!! We were used to keeping the fires roaring all day, and when the temperature shot back up to the 50's our house temperature flew up to 75 degrees! I caught my kids undressing to their underwear and spraying themselves with water bottles while standing in front of a fan! Now, that is really odd behavior for the middle of December!

Ah, well. Wood heat is hard to control without an available easy switch thermostat. It's usually too hot, or too cold. I'm grateful for it, anyway. Despite the mess. Despite the wood chopping. Despite the splinters. Despite our neighbors complaining that we're destroying the environment. Our wood burning stove is a real blessing to us! I'd be very sad if the Oregon legislature succeeds in banning it.
P.S. I'm so grateful to have a working Camera again!!! I've REALLY missed getting to post pictures on my blog!

Monday, December 7, 2009

Fantasy Tour of Europe

Ever since we started learning about World History, my kids have dreamed about seeing the things we've read about in person...up close, FOR REAL!

Two years ago they wanted to see Egypt and the Pyramids.

Last year they wanted to tour Greece and Rome, and see the Pantheon.

This year they fell in love with the Renaissance. They want to go to Italy! The kids want to see the works of Michelangelo, the ceiling of the Sistine Chapel, and the canals of Venice. Dorathy has always wanted to go to Italy because she adores Italian food. But now Christopher is on board, fantasizing about a European tour!

A few weeks ago, we were reading about a little obscure town in Germany. In one of the last outbreaks of the Black Plague, (1600's) this little out of the way village prayed to be spared from the dearth spreading across the land. The plague was so terrible, that some cities lost half their people, and some towns were entirely wiped out. They prayed and fasted, promising God that if their town was spared they would put on an all-day play reinacting the entire life of Christ every 10 years.

Their prayers were heard, a miracle happened and the town was spared. Not a single soul was lost to the plague. With Joy and rejoicing, they stayed true to their word, and over 400 years later it is still going strong. With very few exceptions due to war, their town has continued putting their local people into an all day 10 hour long play about the life of Christ. I believe it to be the biggest outdoor pageant in the world!

My kids were so excited when we researched it online and found out more about it! They were thrilled and wanted to go see it in person...then we found out that the next Passion Play will be this summer, in 2010! Wow!

So my kids said, "Let's plan a trip to Europe!" and I said "Sure, you guys go right ahead. Do some research on the internet and find about how much money we have to save." (I felt so sneaky and cruel doing this, because I knew what they'd find out and what it would do to their morale.)

2 hours later they were crying when they discovered it would cost our family close to $20,000 for all of us to make a trip to Europe to see both Italy and the Oberammergau Passion Play. They were so disheartened by the seemingly unsurmountable task. Saving $100 seems impossible to them, let a lone even a thousand.

Poor kids! Maybe if we got some real great fundraisers going, we could go in 2020. Try telling a kid that "We'll go in 10 years." And they look at you just like you're speaking a foreign language. 10 years is an eternity to a child!

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Homeschool Newsletter?

My kids want to write their own Newsletter.

They kept on encountering stories of kids who have written and published their own works. Thomas Edison published his own newspaper at a very young age. Benjamin Franklin did the same. They would frequently hear stories of homeschooling kids who get to write and publish their stories and articles in different venues, and the idea has inspired them.

My kids love history. And their favorite books about it are those in the "History News" style. This only encouraged them to try their hand at "reporting".

I am very excited about this possibility, because it could be such a great learning experience for me and my kids on so many different levels.

So my goal is that in January, we will have a name for our newsletter, and give it a try to see if there is a receptive audience. I am going to try and learn how to use some software to figure out how to format a newsletter.

The newsletter will be very versatile. The kids want to publish stories, poems, essays, book reviews, current events, homeschooling events, and local news.

The kids have big dreams of "going big" and "getting rich" and "getting great advertisements". I, however, would be pleased just to give it out to family, friends, and neighbors for fun. I would be delighted if in some way, it could build a better bridge of communication between the homeschooling and public schooling realms. I would love to see other kids from both sides contribute to some kind of local publication.

Ideas, anyone, for getting started?

As I have no experience in publishing, (at least I have some experience in editing) I am sure I will quickly be in over my head.

But I am thrilled to give it a try, and just see where it goes!

Saturday, November 21, 2009

A real bad SCARE

We had a really scary experience at my house tonight.

Saturday is bath night at my house. We like squeaky clean kids for Sunday morning!

Julie and Angel had both had their baths, been dried and dressed. Courtney and Dorathy were in a really deep bath. I told them the water was too deep, and asked them to lessen it. Later on, they were wrapped in towels, in the bathroom getting dressed.

Then I realized we were almost out of firewood. It was getting late. It was the kids bedtime, and I needed Christopher's help to get more wood in the house before he was in pajamas too. So Christopher and I went out to grab 25 logs of wood.

As soon as I walked back in the house from getting wood, I felt a bad feeling. Dark, heavy and oppressive. Urgent. Like someone was in danger. I saw the older girls out in the living room playing, all dressed in their Jammies. But I saw no Julianna. Then I knew why I was afraid. I was sure the big girls had not drained the bathwater.

"Did you girls leave the bathroom door open?" I shouted. (There is a HUGE rule in my house that bathroom doors must be shut at all times for Julie's safety...also because she loves to play in the toilet and drink the water....eeeewwww)

I ran into the kids' bathroom in a panic. I heard splashing as I went around the corner. In the bathroom I saw Julianna in the deep bathwater, totally immersed on her belly, flailing around uncontrolably. If she had stood up, she'd be okay. But there was too much water, and she was floating, head underwater. I swept up my soaked, choking baby, dripping water all over the floor, blindly grabbed a towel to wrap her in and began shouting and crying, "My baby was drowning! My baby was drowning!"

I was shaking in fear and relief for a long time. I covered Julianna in kisses while she screamed. I don't think she got water into her lungs. Her fearsome howls were proof of that. She seemed allright once I got her warm, dry and dressed again.

Thankyou, God, for saving my baby tonight!

I am so grateful for the Gift of the Holy Ghost, that let me know immediately that something was wrong. When it comes to drowning, a few seconds can make all the difference.

I am so unspeakably grateful that I get to spend tonight cleaning house and making plans for our family gathering tomorrow instead of dealing with heartbreaking sorrow and funeral plans.

I think that I won't be letting Julianna out of my sight in any future bath nights.

Sunday, November 15, 2009

Living at the Farm

At the beginning of November, we got the chance to play at being "Farmers" when we babysat my sister's farm. We moved there for the whole week, and enjoying being in the country. For me it was a vacation from my house. Without all my normal projects beckoning to me, I found lots of extra time to read, play with my kids, and do lots more homeschoooling with them.

We all loved the country life. Besides the beautiful scenery & the peace and quiet (except for farm noises) we adored being in Mary's cute spacious country-style house. My kids especially enjoyed the downstairs playroom (we don't have one) The children loved running around outside. If you asked them what they liked best about the week, they would probably say that it was Sunshine, Mary's sweet Pomeranian dog.

We were happy to get a chance to preview the life that Scott has always dreamed about. He's hoping to get a Farm between now and his 40th birthday, and I thought to myself...."I need to see if I can handle farm chores!" So Scott and I learned how to feed and take care of a whole menagerie of farm animals.

I got to feed goats, turkeys, chickens, geese, ducks, peacocks, guinea pigs, and guinea fowl. And dogs and cats, of course. You know, I never realized just how FREAKY a cats eyes look in the dark. Whenever I would go out at nighttime to do the chores, I wore a little flashlight on my head. It would illuminate all of the animals eyes. Sometimes I felt like I was living in a horror film, or running around in an Animal Planet documentary, or existing in Stephenie Meyer's world in the book THE HOST. (The only way you can identify the alien entities who live in host human bodies is by shining a light into their eyes and seeing a reflecting glow, like an animal's). I never quite got used to walking around in the dark, surrounding by green glowing eyes. It was unsettling. The cats eyes were the worst, however, because they were always popping up out of nowhere. A couple of times, I "lost it" and came close to hysteria when a cat would drop on top of me out of nowhere. It was like the pooh bear movie where Pooh bear whispers menacingly to Piglet, "It's a JAGULAR....When you look up....they drop on you!" There was one cat, a black one called Spook, who kept on trying to climb up my body with his claws. I think he became overly amorous after I fed him some goat milk strippings.

The scariest glowing eyes incident of all was with their enormous guard dog, Daisy. Daisy had taken to jumping the fences to chase cars, and so they tied a VERY heavy log to her to prevent her from getting hit by a car, or from bothering the neighbors. This caused her to move very sl0wly and awkwardly. Well, one night when I went into the pens to feed the dog, I saw/sensed this ENORMOUS animal RUSHING toward me very fast with huge glowing green eyes. I knew it wasn't a cat, it was too big for a coyote...could it be a wolf...a mountain lion? Just when I was trying to decide whether to scream, run, or fight, the animal got close enough and I discovered to my chagrin it was just Daisy herself. She had somehow freed herself from the cumbersome log and chain, and she was gleeful, bouncy and playful with her happiness at being free. Well, I felt pretty silly at my alarm, and very relieved that it was just the dog. I'm sure if I were outside doing farm chores everyday in the dark, glowing eyes wouldn't freak me out so much.

It wasn't as difficult as I'd feared. But it was time consuming. Mary's an expert by now, and each time she does the chores she says it only takes her 1 hour. Well, it would take Scott and I 2 hours, and sometimes much longer to do the same work. We slowly got a little faster as the week wore on. The longest time was taken up by milking 4 goats. At first, my hands were so weak that by the 3rd or 4th goat, my hands were trembling, and I just couldn't command them to work anymore. My back and neck were KILLING me! The pain and discomfort didn't begin to go away for several days. My hands were finally strong enough to finish the milking without difficulty by the time my sister returned home. But my fingers were sore for days and I had a hard time playing the piano on Sunday. The tendons just felt all jiggly.

I have SO MUCH respect for my sister and the continual hard labor she puts into caring for a farm that produces wonderful, healthy, life-giving products! Great raw milk, omega 3 free-range chicken eggs, and of course grass fed meats of all kinds. She does a great job, and we've all been blessed by the fruit of her labors!

While we lived at "River Ridge Farm" we had a couple of engaging experiences. The most memorable is when we kept on trying to chase and capture Mary's peahen which escaped the week before when she was transferring the peacocks to a new cage. Despite baiting the area with bread crumbs, using all the kids to corner it, and being as sneaky and fast as possible, we never did catch the bird. She kept on flying right out our grasp. She was too clever for us!

Life is never boring on a farm, there is always something to see and to do! The environment is SO good for kids.

I think whenever we get our own acreage, that the agricultural life will suit us very well.

The experience overall was a very good one, and I look forward to having fun babysitting the farm sometime again in the future. Maybe it will be in the summer when it's light till 10 o'clock outside, and I won't have to look at glowing green eyes in the dark!

Tuesday, November 3, 2009

Kid Funnies!

My daughter is a genius! My 17 month old, Julianna, came up to me saying "poo-poo! poo-poo!" And I'm thinking...there is NO WAY she is saying that and knows what she is saying! But sure enough, she was stinky, and as soon as I got out a diaper, she grinned at me and laid down to be changed! Now only if that meant she will be an early potty trainer! But I know from past experience, that just because they know they are going potty in their diaper, doesn't mean they are even close to being ready to use a toilet! Oh well, I'll just be happy that she is one of those kids who ENJOYS being changed, instead of the kind that hides and runs away!

Julianna's newest word is "THANK-YOU!" Only she doesn't say it when you give her something, she only says it when she gives YOU something! That's because I always say "Thank-you" when I'm taking away something from her that she is not suppose to have. ;)

Today Dorathy told me that when she grows up she is going to open a Japanese restaurant called "POKEMON BUFFET" Gotta eat them all? hee hee!

Courtney found an old BOOBAH movie that was lost in the Garage. I had wanted to get rid of it or throw it away, but it got lost. Now Courtney is obsessed with Boobahs again! Aaargh...they are so much more scary than Teletubbies. I need to make this movie disapear one night. When Courtney was 3 she used to tell everyone that when she grew up she was going to be a BOOBAH. It was soooo embarrassing! Serves me right for having something like that in the house!

Courtney has this thing she does, whenever she gets caught doing wrong, she makes her eyes all big and round and she bats her eyelashes....no joke. She really puts on the innocent act. And even though I KNOW what she's doing...it sure makes it hard to meet out the deserved punishment.

Whenever you tuck Angel in to bed, she always has to tell you "ONE MORE THING!" And then if you say okay, she casts her eyes about desperate to say something. She'll take the first thing she sees (say a blues clues dog) and then just start making stuff up "Blues Clues was climbing up my roof one day, when she nearly fell off, and she needed help! So Clifford came by and helped her go over the roof, and together they saved the baby...." She'll go on and on and on and on forever making up some nonesensical story. I feel bad cutting her off, because it's so darn cute.

Yesterday she helped teach her very first Family Home Evening Lesson! She was strutting around the house, proclaiming "Hey kids! I'm teaching the Lesson tonight! All by myself!!! Just me and my Mom!" When I started teaching the lesson, I thought I could have Angel hold up a picture and say some words. BUT NO...she really really wanted to teach. She asked me, "Mommy, can I PLEASE have a turn to talk?" She lectured for several minutes, I have no idea what she said, it made no sense whatsoever, but she was sure proud of herself when she was done! Today she told me "Mommy, I am growing up big and strong! Like Christopher and Daddy! I will soon be big like them, because I eat all my food, My tummy is full!" And this came right after she ate a big Halloween licorice treat. Hmmmm...I don't think Halloween treats are going to make her grow big and strong.

FUNNY story about why you should never overestimate the capabilities of your 11 year old son and 10 year old nephew:

Last week, I had to make a quick trip to Costco. Right before I took all 6 kids in with me (my 5 and a nephew, Sanford) Sanford proclaimed that he had a splinter in his foot, and that he didn't want to come into the store; he much preferred to stay in the car. Well, wherever Sanford goes, Christopher follows, so I said okay, the 2 boys could stay in the van listening to some music. They're old enough to handle being alone for a few minutes unsupervised, right? How could anything go wrong, I thought? I was only going in to buy 1 item! Christopher likes to stay in the car sometimes, and he is always very responsible about leaving the doors locked.

You can't go into Costco for just 1 item. Especially when you have 4 young hungry girls who want you to stick around and wait for all the samples to be ready! So by the time we got out, nearly and hour had passed! Lunch hour and crowded lines didn't help any. I was really worried about those boys!

As we drew close, the two boys popped out from behind the van, exclaiming, "WHERE WERE YOU?!? WE WERE SOOOO BORED!"
"Yeah," Sanford added, "We had no clue where you were, we were climbing on top of the van and looking around for you and shouting to see if we could find you."

"Yeah," Christopher joins in, "We were bored, until we discovered this delightful umbrella, and how it POPS out! It's great for sword fights...."

OH NO! Visions of a youtube movie showing up with 2 young boys fencing on the top of my van with umbrellas bloomed in my head. I'm sure that's not exactly what they were doing, but it might not be too far from the truth either.

So the lesson is: Just because 2 boys are old enough to stay in the car by themselves, doesn' t mean that they should!



And do not trust your eldest children more than they are able to handle! They were fine, but it obviously wasn't the wisest decision on my part!!! I'm always pushing my eldest before he is ready, I can't seem to help myself. Poor oldest kid! It also brings to mind something a friend of mine once confided: the more boys you get together, the lower their IQ's drop. What that means is that the more boys get together, the more they have to be active, loud, rambunctious, and competitive....and that usually leads to trouble!

I'm lucky I learned the lesson this time with so little to pay for it! I hope I remember it!

My favorite kid quote of the week is when Christopher and Sanford were having a discussion on probability:
Christopher would say, "Sanford, What is the probability of "so-and so"?" and Sanford would just rattle off some random percentage, and Christopher would totally believe that whatever Sanford said is right.
The funny part came when they were discussing the probability of different scenarios if our van ran out of gas. Christopher asked, "What is the probability of us running out of gas if we drove way way way way far out into the country?"
Sanford anwered, "99.999999999% chance!"
Christopher proposed that is was possible that we'd pass a gas truck on his way to refill a gas station, and if we were in need, we could get gas from that passing truck.
Sanford declared "No, that's not very probable. BUT....WHAT IF an ELECTRON appeared in our gas tank as fuel?!?"
At this point I began laughing so loud I almost ran off the road. It's so fun to hear these boys discuss scientific and theoretical principles because they've read a lot and heard a lot about higher ideas, but they don't have enough experience/mental maturity to apply it appropriately. They come up with some amazingly crazy ideas; and I just love it. It's fun to see how they think out of the box, too. I can't wait to see what kind of young men they turn out to be.

Having kids is SO much fun. I'd rather be entertained hearing my kids talk than watch any TV show you could name! Kids are great....most of the time.

Stupid Tax


Years ago, I heard a new term which struck me as rather clever....and true!

I first heard it from my brother-in-law. I remember that he said he allotted himself a certain amount of money a month that would end up being used as stupid tax. And that way, he'd never go into debt for stupidity.

It's called STUPID TAX for a reason. Stupid Tax is when you end up paying money for something that is entirely your own fault, usually as a result of bad judgement or some other kind of stupid mistake.

For example, People who choose to gamble consistently pay stupid tax. I have a friend who claims that people who choose to gamble just aren't very good at math. If they truly understood the laws of probablility, they'd never do it in the first place.


Well, Over the years I've paid my share of stupid tax.

**Signing up for those clever marketing schemes..."Try me for 30 days risk free! But then if you don't return/cancel it, you've bought it for the low monthly fee of....!" In my young naive newly married status, I fell prey to this once or twice, and ended up with a few unwanted and unused cook books this way. Then I swore to never do it again...too bad I didn't remember!

**You've won the sweepstakes! Just send $10.00 here for us to release your 10 thousand dollars to you! (I'm SO embarrassed for admitting this one!)

**Parking tickets for parking in the wrong parking lot on purpose at college, in the hopes of not being caught during the 10 minutes it takes to run in and hand in an over-due paper.

**Speeding tickets from not paying attention to those little towns that pop up out of nowhere when the speed limit drops from 55 to 25. Ouch...that ticket was expensive! One time I was being extra stupid and was clocked going 80 in a 25 zone. You can believe that I never let that one happen again!

**Waiting too long to return some item to the store, and losing money on it.

**Not fixing something when it was still under warranty, when you KNEW it had to be fixed and you SUSPECTED that the warranty would end soon.

**Paying bills late.

**Registering for something late and having to pay more $$.


ANWAY...you get the picture! The reason for this post is that I THOUGHT I had graduated to a new level of living...one without stupid tax. I thought I had learned my lesson.

I am extremely chagrined to admit, however, that I recently fell prey to more stupid tax. Thankfully, I'm hoping that I've learned my lesson for good this time.

I've learned that you should NEVER EVER EVER EVER EVER click on the web advertisements on any major web page. You never know what scheme you may fall prey too. Here's the short version of my story:

It's late at night, I'm feeling bad about my weight and appearance. I've recently read a few blogs from friends who highly recommend detoxing as well as the acai berry supplement for losing lots of weight. Lo and behold, that same night I see an advertisement for a free trial (plus Sh&H, of course), I Click on the picture (fatal mistake), read the testimonials, and am swayed that I should give it a try (what's the harm?) I ask myself. I tell myself I'll just write the cancellation deadline into my schedule so there will be NO POSSIBLE way that I end up paying a ton of money.

If you are reading this and you are groaning with the stupidity of it all, you might want to stop now. Because it gets worse.

Between two family vacations, I miss the deadline to cancel. Not only that, but I start to receive telemarketing calls trying to sell me colon detoxes and acai berry supplements. I tell them to cancel my accounts...I don't want it! And for some reason I think I've canceled the items I bought from those companies. Who else but them has my information to be selling me theses specific products? In the next few days, I see two different HIGH charges to my banking accounts.

Because it's all too stupidly painful, and the details are too exhausting, I'll just say that hours of phone calls, letters, shipping and returning products later, over a course of 6 weeks, I finally managed to cancel all accounts, and get all my money refunded except for the shipping of course.

I thought it was all over. I thought I was done.

Then I discovered new unexplained charges to my bank accounts. I'm thinking, who in the world have these companies sold me out to? It turns out, that when you click on some of these companies and sign up for free trials, that they automatically sign you up for other deals and "email" you the cancellation details (which go to your junk folder and get lost). The credit/debit cards they use to charge your shipping and handling, get charged for all other kinds of "great deals" that they claim they told you about. I had been caught: hook, line and sinker!

I had to spend many more hours on the phone with more companies fighting them and telling them I never authorized their clubs, and that I wanted nothing to do with them, and would you PLEASE refund my money? (during this time, I wandered around my house muttering like a madwoman: "stupid stupid stupid!")

This is where I learned to be more assertive; I had to talk to the manager of the various companies and threaten to report them to the Better Business Bureau. And that is when you find out to your relief, that the charges which all the telemarketers claim are "unrefundable" really can be refunded. Nothing is impossible if you talk to the right person.



Here is a format of the typical conversation I had with several different toads at several different companies. To be kind, I'm sure they are taught to aggressively fight for their company's interests. But isn't it interesting, that if you ever want a good deal from just about any company where you regularly order stuff, all you have to do is threaten to cancel your membership? It's disheartening to realize many misc. products we buy could be reduced by over 50%, and the producers would still be cutting a profit.

ME: "I would like to cancel my account, return the product unopened, and I demand a refund."

Them: "We can't do that. But I'll give you a 20% discount."

ME: "I'm serious. I don't want the product. Return my money."

Them: "We can give you an even better deal....60% off the retail price! Who could say no to such savings?"

Me: "I want to speak to a manager. What is your name and information?"

Them: "Are you sure you wouldn't rather have $100.00 in gas vouchers as a perk for keeping a membership with us?"

Me: "I'll be reporting you. Please understand that this means NO. I'm returning everything. There is no reason you can't refund my money."

Them in a very grumpy voice "Fine, here's your cancellation number and instructions. Your money will reposted to your account in a couple of weeks."

This kind of experience makes we wonder, GEE WHIZ, what kind of American Idiot falls prey to these vampires?!?

Oops...I guess that would be weak minded people like ME!

I'm so disgusted with myself, it took my several weeks to be emotionally distanced from the awful ordeal enough to put it to paper. But I wanted to record it as a severe humiliating lesson to me and as a friendly warning to others....

BEWARE OF STUPID TAX!


Sunday, November 1, 2009

The Holidays are officially here!


This morning, my husband with cheerful expression began taking down all the Halloween decorations and turning on the Christmas music.
This is his official declaration: THE HOLIDAYS ARE HERE!
He put on Christmas music, too. But he's always trying to do that all year long!
I thought I'd have plenty of time to brush up on my Christmas Primary piano songs, but I was surprised! Today in Primary, I had to play 3 or 4 Christmas songs. Time to practice!
Scott LOVES Christmas. Especially the music that goes with it. It is his favorite time of year, and he'd celebrate it all year long if he could. He has his birthday, our anniversary, and Christmas all in the same month, and he LOVES it that way. It's just hard on him that he has to miss out on a lot of the family Holiday gatherings because he works in the evenings. Last year we got to have him home in the evenings and that was SO great. We won't have any of that this year, though *sigh*.

At least he gets Sundays off, still! And I think we'll actually have our 13th anniversary off this year, too! Yeah!


Scott loves Christmas so much, that he never forgets to declare "Christmas in July" (half way point) and plays a ton of Christmas music. He'd put up a tree and give out presents, too if I'd let him! "No way, Jose'!" I told him, "Doing it once a year is enough work"


It's kind of sad, but the more excited my kids get, the more depressed I get. It's not that I don't love Christmas, I just don't enjoy all the work! I preferred the child-like carefree days of ignorant bliss. I don't get so excited to stay up till 3 a.m. wrapping and setting up. AND the cooking, AND the cleaning, AND the planning, AND the spending....need I go on? Dorathy was disturbed to see my reaction to all her excited querries "I just can't wait till Christmas, can you mama?!? It will be Christmas soon!!!" I would just tell her, "Believe me Dorathy, I can wait! I don't want it to be Christmas yet!!" In response to this, she's now telling me frequently, "Don't worry Mommy! I will do all the work! I will be Santa's little helper! I will wrap all the presents except my own and do all the cooking! I'll do the desserts, at least!" Cute girl. It's the thought that counts, right?

One of these years, I'm going to declare a no present year, or a 1 present only year, or a handmade gifts only year...and then concentrate on all the spiritual aspects of Christmas, and try to do lots more service for others. I think I would enjoy that kind of Christmas a LOT more!!! I don't know how the rest of my family feels about that, though.

SOMEDAY! I'm trying to convince them!

Thursday, October 29, 2009

Not working....not working.....

Why does everything break at once?

Well, I know that it doesn't...it just seems that way. Just for my own clarity of thought, I wanted to list here all of my broken things that need to be fixed/replaced. I guess this is also my Christmas Wish List!

--Stove Top (I really only have one working burner)
--Washer and Dryer (they are so close to DEAD. Washer isn't turning...might have to put a set on our credit card...yikes! DON'T want to do that!!!)
--Computer (Yeah, that's right...I have no access to all my family pictures! I just hope we can recover all our information at some point!!!)
--Digital Camera (it's just KILLING me that I've missed 3 birthdays and 2 Halloween parties, with no camera to record my cute kids in pictures! I can't sleep at night when I think about it.)
--Vacuum Cleaner (It hasn't ever really worked well since our van ran over it!)
--Computer Chair (Scott leaned back....and he kept on going when the back wheels snapped off! Now we're always stealing the kitchen chairs so we can sit at the laptop, and the kids complain when they come to dinner and their chair is missing ;P All the drama is kind of funny, actually.

I think we'll be spending a lot of time on Craigslist!

It seems like the list of broken things always piles up right before Christmas. I guess it's good practice for us to learn how to tighten our belts and really watch our finances. Last year it was having to replace our water heater. The year before, we spent thousands on doing some necessary house upkeep, including slicing off a portion of our wood shed. This year we had to pay off some medical bills, so our little list of needs & wants will just have to wait a while to be addressed.

I'm just SO grateful that Scott has good steady employment. The Lord has always blessed us to have plenty for our needs. We don't want for food or clothes, or anything else, for that matter!!! So I'll be counting my blessings and crossing my fingers that I won't have to learn how to wash our clothes by hand next month! I know the Lord has blessed us abundantly for paying our tithing. Bags of clothing for my kids miraculously appear on my doorstep, friends and strangers give me BOXES of homeschool supplies & books, offers of free furniture seem to pop up just when we most need it...and most of all, we've been SO blessed with a ton of free firewood...we'll be warm this winter --hurray!




As long as our van doesn't break down, I think we'll be okay! (KNOCK ON WOOD)

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

My grown-up birthday wish list

When I was young, birthdays were about late nights at Chuck E Cheese, Halloween themed birthday cakes, and lots of special attention from family and friends. A paper birthday crown, kisses and hugs, and lots of laughter and presents. I loved all my dress-up costume parties. Such sweet memories!

When I was a teenager, birthdays were about hanging out with friends and getting new clothes. Mom would make our favorite breakfast and lunch. Sometimes we'd get to go out to a restaurant. Once on my 18th birthday, my Mom and Dad even came to school in the middle of Choir class and surprised me with a giant bouquet of roses, balloons, cards and presents. My peers were flabbergasted. Their parents never went to such extremes to show love and attention on their birthdays! They wanted to make fun of me for my parents coming to school and singing to me in front of the whole class, but most of them just couldn't. Maybe it was because they were so pleasantly surprised at my parents' sincerity...or maybe they were a little jealous.

When I was a young married, birthdays were about getting to go out on a special date with your spouse. My husband would spent every waking moment making sure I felt like I was Queen for the day. My wish was his command.

Now that life has evolved to constant chaos of five growing kids, my wish list was developed from necessity and desperation for cleanliness and order.

Here's a copy of the wishlist I gave Scott last week:

A clean garage
A working stove top
A working vaccuum
A Clean Garage
New frying pans
A tidied backyard

It's interesting to compare my current wish list with those of my past, because I see how my needs and circumstances have changed. Wow, I guess my priorities and daily desires have altered! There wasn't a single book on that wish list! It makes me wonder what my wish list will look like in 5 more years.

But Scott must have known what was in my heart...because he actually did get me a book for my birthday! Yay for thoughtful hubbies!

In fact, I was pampered and cared for beyond all belief on this, my 33rd birthday. Today I have been overwhelmed with gratitude for all the blessings God has given me in my friends and family.

Here's a quick summary of my Birthday Fun:

The night before, a good friend made me the most amazing delectable dark chocolate coconut filled "MOUNDS" cake. It was amazing. She threw me a little party get together. Girl talk is so relaxing and fun! The night was a blast! I laughed and smiled so much my face began to hurt!

I came home and played with my new family pictures, and went crazy rehanging half of all the pictures in my house. My husband was patiently tolerant of this, because all he really wanted was for me to go to bed so he could make me a birthday surprise.

I went to bed at midnight, but poor Scott decided to stayed up till 3 a.m., cleaning the kitchen, and cooking a whole-wheat, no sugar (honey only) 3 layered pumpkin cake with honey vanilla filling, and dark Ghiardelli chocolate frosting. Then after that he still let me sleep in till about 9:30 a.m.!!! I haven't slept in that late for over a year!

Scott cooked me banana french toast and sausage for breakfast, and a yummy casserole for dinner. And he cleaned! My man knows that the quickest way to my heart is a clean house!

My Mom stopped by to give me presents, and then my sister took me out to eat for lunch. That afternoon the kids and I watched The Tale of Desperaux (gift from my sister) .

Instead of a birthday wish list, what I should have written was a birthday gratitude list:

I am grateful for my dedicated, loyal, loving husband of 13 years.

I am thankful for my 5 beautiful healthy, happy children

I am grateful for good friends both far a near who give me love, friendship, and great examples to follow.
I am thankful for loving parents who support me all the way,

I am eternally grateful for My Saviour Jesus Christ and his unconditional gifts of love, forgivness, and resurrection.
I am also thankful for my membership in The Church Of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints which gives me peace, direction, and purpose in all that I do.

I am thankful for all good books from Scriptures to history to fiction Stories that give me knowedge, values, wisdom, and a foundation from which to measure and view all things.

I am intensely grateful for a free country with laws established by our constitution...may it stay free!

I am grateful for the many liberties I enjoy from freedom of speech to freedom to homeschool.

I am thankful for good health, enough wealth, and a great home.

If every Holiday and Birthday I made a thankful list instead of a wish list, I bet I would be happier, healthier, and wealthier...from not spending so much $$ on presents...ha ha!

Today I turned triple 11, 3x my eldest child's age. The age of 33 is bound to be a great year!

Thankyou, everyone for the best birthday ever.

Wednesday, October 14, 2009

Moving up in the world!

All my kids are growing up so fast! They are moving up in the world! Here are some recent updates on my kids to show how quickly they are changing and maturing.

Julianna, almost 17 months old now has said several new words this week. "Bear" "Star" "Moo" &"Bye bye" (more clearly now anyway) and she sang the melody of Twinkle Twinkle Little Star! I love it when my babies first figure out how to sing! All of my kids have been early singers. Christopher could sing a whole repertoire of songs by the time he was 18 months, but Courtney was my earliest singer. She learned how to sing when she was only 9 months old! Funny, but she hardly sings at all now. She's usually too busy pulling headstands. Julianna is also learning how to run. She hasn't quite figured out how to climb yet, but I actually saw her CRAWL for the first time last week! She can crawl a little, after she's been walking for3 months!

Angel has now been promoted to the chore list. Starting in September she got her official first "chore". Emptying the silverware out of the dishwasher has been the very first chore each of our children have received. In the past, some of our kids have had a hard time with this transition. Not Angel! Her entire life was spent watching her older siblings do chores. So, for her, this was a HUGE boost! Her very first day, she was so proud of herself! She even does it now without being asked! It's just the beginning on the long road of learning to take care of herself and serving others in the family.

The other big news on Angel is that she is POTTY TRAINED!!! She still has accidents...but for the most part, she wears underwear full time, even to bed! The only thing holding her back from 100% completion is that she still refuses to sit on any of the "big" potties at any store. They terrify her. She is only willing to use "regular" small potties at peoples houses. Which means when we go out for the day, Angel has to wear a pull-up, or I have to haul a portable kid potty. It's quite a pain, we're hoping she grows out of it sometime this year.

Angel is also participating in a preschool Co-op. This is a huge source of joy and satisfaction for Angel. She is loving it. She feels so grown-up to have an activity that is just for her. At first, I was hesitant to commit to participating, but I'm so glad that I did. Once ever five weeks, I plan 2 days of preschool for five 3-year olds. It has been so much fun so far! My older kids are a little jealous. None of them got to do anything quite like this.

Courtney has been promoted in her chores. Now she has been moved from emptying the silverware to unloading the rest of the dishes with Dorathy. She is also learning to do dishes as well as clear and wash all the tables and counters. She has her own assigned "zone" of the house she is responsible to pick up every night. For all the changes, she is handling it very well. She is a champion dish washer, and loves washing the dishes by hand. I think her love of water and bubbles helps her out.

Courtney is also participating in YMCA gymnastics. It has been a sacrifice to drive to Independence 2x a week, but I think we'll keep on doing it. Courtney is really enjoying the gymnastics class. It is just second nature to her.

Dorathy is learning to be a chef. She is a girl who loves food. She hates sandwhiches, and so one day during the lunch hour when she was hungry she offered to cook for all of us. All on her own with no help, she made "Tortilla pizzas" for the whole family! I think that means she's ready to learn more cooking! She's got a real eye for balance and beauty; when Dorathy cooks, she's not just making a meal, she's creating art. Dorathy would do great in a 4H cooking class at some point, she really goes for the "presentation". She's the kid who at 5 years old made little "Italy Flags" to stick in everyone's pieces of lasagna. What a character!

Dorathy is enjoying her art lessons very much. She tells me she wishes the classes were several times a week instead of just once. Right now, she's learning water color. Both Dorathy and Courtney spend hours drawing. It's fun to see how they pay attention to eachother's art work, and bounce ideas off each other. When Dorathy and Athena draw, or Ivy and Courtney draw, they tend to reflect one another's artistic style. It's interesting to watch. I think Dorathy draws as good as I did when I was 11, and Courtney already draws as I did when I was 8. I never spent a lot of time drawing as a kid, I just preferred watching my sister draw instead!

Christopher is now ELEVEN YEARS OLD! I can't believe it. He's entering the pre-teen years! Lots of things are headed his way! He is now participating in 11 year old scouts. He is really enjoying it. He's already gone to his first overnight campout. He had a blast. He put up his own tent with zero help. I don't think I could do that without help! (I've forgotten)

Christopher has graduated from emptying the dishwasher and has now moved on to more interesting chores...like mopping! Christopher changed his first diaper last week. He's been dreading that for years, but we're finally requiring him to learn it as he is currently in training to be our babysitter! According to Oregon law, a kid is old enough to stay home alone at 10 years old, and old enough to babysit when they turn 11. I was so worried that he wouldn't be ready to step up to that responsibility, but he's really almost there!

I'm going to design a little home "babysitting class" for him with a few more things he has to complete and check off before he's babysitting ready. We already had a short trial run, and I came home to find that Julianna's diaper had fallen off and she was playing in the potty...SO we have some work to do! Christopher's excited to give it another try. Scott and I will have our first date be at home, while Christopher watches the kids at our own house. Then we'll eventually move to the point where he's watching the kids after we've already put them to bed, and we're in town a close phone call away.

Anyway, you can tell we've been thinking about this....we've got a plan! It's so much fun to watch these amazing kids growing up!

Tuesday, October 13, 2009

September Family Vacation 2009 part 2

Sorry these posts are so long, but since I'm using this blog as a family history I am now going to record the second half of our September camping trip! Optional reading below! Since my Camera was broken, I'm borrowing pictures off of the Web.

September 18th

Our first day at Mt St. Helen's we had perfect weather! It was sunny and got up to 85 degrees! Of course it was much cooler up closer to the volcano, but I was just SO excited to get to see the mountain with clear visibility! The last 2 times I had been there, it was gray, overcast, and drizzly. No fun! This picture below shows exactly what the mountain looked like when we were there.
After Julianna's morning nap, we drove up to the tippy top at Johnstone's ridge Observatory. We had some beautiful views! You could see right into the crater! You could even see volcanic vents in the cracks in one side venting steam. It was so awesome! We took a very very short hike since the kids were hungry and cranky. We played around at the visitor's center for a few hours and watched the movie twice. We enjoyed a nice picnic lunch. Julie and Angel both had a few temper tantrums from sheer exhaustion. On the way home, we decided to stop at their forestry center. Their exhibits were closed, but they had a wonderful park! We played there for about 2 hours until dinner time. We were too worn out to do much besides go back to camp, cook, eat & sleep. But the kids had had a terrific day learning all about the history of Mt.St. Helens and volcanoes in general. They park had a miniature Mt St Helens, and they all took turns climbing to the top and proclaiming themselves ruler of the volcano. Courtney was the first to climb to the top.



Saturday, September 20th

This was a big day. We left as early as we could after breakfast and took a long 2 1/2 hr drive to the south point of Mt. St. Helens. I had heard great things about the "Ape Caves", so named for the Boy Scout Troop who discovered it. (They called themselves the Mt. St. Helens Apes) They are one of the longest Lava Tubes in America. A Lava Tube is formed from an ancient lava flow. 3,000 years ago, Mt. St. Helens had a rare lava explosion. The lava flow cooled around the outside, but the lava still ran through the center, like milk through a staw. After several weeks (or months), the liquid lava ran out, and the tube was left hollow. We only discover lava tubes beneath the ground when a part of the roof collapses. These lava tubes at Mt. St. Helens were SO LONG. I had been under the impression it was an easy hike, but even the easiest route proved challenging or my little ones. We didn't dare touch the upper caves where you are required to scale 8 foot walls of boulders!

The only kid who really enjoyed it was Christopher. I also didn't expect that it was entirely undeveloped. No rangers go down there with you. There are no artificial lights. You are suppose to bring your own propane lantern and flashlights. It is PITCH BLACK down there, and a flashlight would never be good enough to make it through those tunnels. We ended up having to rent a propane lantern. At least we brought several flashlights! You really need both to hike safely, though, so be warned!

At first, everyone did okay. The tunnels were windy and cold, but it was sort of fun being in the dark with a great echo. But after an hour of hiking in the dark with REALLY RUGGED terrain underfoot, the kids got really weary....and bored. It's not like the Timpanogas Caves in Utah with beautiful colorful formations to examine. And it's nothing like Carlsbad Caverns. These lava tubes looked like an empty train tunnel with jagged uneven ledges all over the place. The top of the tubes looked like a subway tunnel.

Geologically speaking, it was fascinating, but it was over the heads of our little ones. We ended up making it to the very end of the tunnel where they have a small crawl space. The kid wiggled through on their bellies to get to a room at the very end that only little kids could reach. Christopher and Courtney were the only ones brave enough to make it. By this time Julianna had just had it. She was wailing non-stop. She was cold, hungry, and tired...but we were not allowed to bring food of any kind to cheer or warm her. All we could do was trudge the long hour back to the beginning. We sang lots of songs to lift the monotony, and to keep our sanity since by this point Julianna was wailing so loud we were silently praying that she wouldn't cause the lava tubes to collapse! Poor Scott had a terrible headache. Poor Julie was just sure we were torturing her. There was no point in stopping, though. The only thing we could do was endure on the way out. I had to carry Angel all the way piggyback since she just refused to walk another step. SO...I recommend this hike for kids 9 and up!

If I had been a wise woman, I would have called it a day and let my Honey just take us back to camp to relax. But no. I've inherited this mentality from my Dad, that when you go on a trip YOU PACK AS MUCH FUN INTO EVERY SPARE MINUTE THAT YOU CAN, and the more you do and see, the better. I had heard amazing things about the Lower Falls of the Lewis River. And we were only 45 miles from an amazing waterfall! I really wanted to see it, and check out the campground there to decide if we wanted to make a visit another year. So my sweet Hubby acquiesed.

The drive took longer than I expected...over 2 hours! I should have realized in the mountains that would happen. By the time we got there, Scott was exhausted and really put out with me. I took Christopher and Courtney on a super short hike where we gazed in wonder at a truly amazing falls for 30 + minutes. Scott, baby, Dora, and Angel all just wanted to stay in the car, but we went back and convinced them that it was worth seeing. It was only a 2 minute walk from the car. You could hear the water roaring from the parking lot, even though it was the dry season!

This one water fall looks like a minature niagra falls. It was so lovely. It had about 5 different falls on different sides of the ledges. The only scary part was: there are nearly no railings separating you from the falls. You can also walk right down to the water above the falls. There are signs everywhere warning you not to put even your foot in the water since the water looks deceptively safe...but people are swept over the falls to their deaths every year. So...as beautiful as it was, we are not going back there for many many years. I was terrified to put Julianna down for even a second. So...it was a really amazing view, but not worth the extra 3+ hours it cost us.

By the time we drove back into any kind of civilization, it was after 7 p.m. and we were all starving. We ended up going to a Chuck E Cheeses at a mall. The kids had a blast. Especially Julianna who really made up for the hours being trapped in the car by running around like crazy. She also ate about 4 pieces of pizza! The poor girl was starving! She was making up for all those dinners she had missed so far on our vacation. Embarrassing story: while running around playing, she actually walked right up to a family, took a piece of pizza off of a boy's plate, and stuffed it in her mouth! I was mortified, but all I could do was apologize for my 15 month old baby and offer to pay for the piece of pizza. The ladies (who were from India) were very gracious about it, considering Julianna stole it from THEIR baby!

Sunday, September 21st.

On Sunday Scott really just wanted to stay at camp and have our own Sacrament meeting. But I felt strongly that if there was a church ward nearby, we should at least attend Sacrament. Trying to clean up while camping and STAY CLEAN in your Sunday clothes long enough to get to church is a real production!!! It took us around 2 hours to get everyone showered and dressed. But despite all the hustle, and getting lost trying to find the chapel, I am so glad we went! Castle Rock, Washington has a lovely ward! They were so kind and welcoming! They went to a lot of trouble to make us feel at home. I'm glad that my kids got the opportunity to go to a primary far from home and discover that they worship the same, and sing the same songs, etc.

Back at camp, we finally got to relax and rest. It was a lovely day. We met several nice new families, some of them homeschoolers at our Campground park. It was nice to get to share some about our religion and our homeschooling adventures. One family from Atlanta (who are Jewish) were touring the country with their 4 young children. They had been on the road for 3 months! They were hoping from National Park to National park! What an experience that must be! We were very impressed.


Monday, September 21st.
This day ended up being everybody's favorite! We took at day trip to Mt. Rainier! I've always been in love with Mt. Rainier. It is "my mountain"! For the year and a half I lived in Redmond, Washington, I could see mountain right outside my window!

We thought it would be a long 3 hour drive, but it ended up being only 2 hrs. I had misinformed my children: most of my memories of Mt. Rainier were in Spring or summer when the mountain was smothered in snow! So my kids thought it would be a short hike to the glaciers. They were looking forward to throwing snowballs and sliding down glaciers like I had seen so many people do at Mt. Rainier. I hadn't taken it into consideration that the tailend of September was the END of the dry season! The mountain was still gorgeous, but it had hardly any snow on it! The mountain streams and waterfalls were nothing but a trickle compared to their usual gusty show.

When we arrived we enjoyed a short hike up to a waterfall area. We had a great view of the mountain (perfect warm clear weather!!!) and a lovely scene of all the mountain meadows. It's not as breathtaking as it is in early summer, when the fields are filled with bright wildflowers, and yet the snow is still impressive. But considering that the mountain is shrouded in mysterious clouds 300 days out of the year, we were so glad to get a good view!

One year when my sister and I went hiking there as teenagers, we saw several Marmots (mountain prairie dogs-like creatures) who would pop up out of their burrows and squeak at us. We didn't see much wildlife this time around, but the incredible presence of the mountain was enough to satisfy each of us!!! The kids loved it, and were making songs up about it. Angel was singing so endearingly, making up songs about the berries growing up along the pathways that were for the birds, she got a whole audience of adults who stopped to liesten. Our kids were so cheerful and sweet we got many kind compliments from other visitors that day. The only unhappy one was Christopher.

He was so sure he could make it to a glacier if we just let him hike on by himself! He had no clue that the mountain which looked SO close was very very very far away, and there was no way he could reach those glaciers without some serious mountaineering gear! (and a week of long 20 mile days) I'll just have to take my kids to Mt. Hood one of these days in the winter to do some sledding!

One of the neatest parts of our stay was the brand new visitors center! It was beautiful. The sides of the walls were made entirely out of glass so it felt as if the mountain just encompassed you. There were lots of cute kid exhibits and hands on stations. And of course, they had a well-done movie. My kids are now very knowledgable about the life cycle of destructive volcanoes. Every once in a while, they would need assurance from Scott or I that the mountain wasn't about to erupt THAT VERY MOMENT.
Here is the front desk at the new visitor's center

Truthfully, Mt. Rainier is the most dangerous volcanoe in all of the Cascade range, even if it's not frequently as active as Mt. St. Helens'. It is 300 years overdue for a major eruption. When Mt. Rainier finally goes it will cause cataclysmic destruction. With all the snow on top, the mudflows could actually reach Puget Sound. Because of this, and some nightmares I had frequently a few years ago, it was quite amazing that I got Scott to let us go to Mt. Rainier at all! A while ago I kept on having dreams that when I had finally taken my family to visit Mt. Rainier, it erupted, and we had to be evacuated by emergency rescue helicopters. I admit it was really freaky when I stepped into that new visitors center, and it looked exactly like the one in my dream! Thankfully, I am not a prophetess, and our visit was a joyful one uninterrupted by earthquakes and lava flows.
I had to put a picture of a rescue helicopter just for fun...
just because we didn't need to ride in one! :)


Tuesday, September 22nd

This was our last day of vacation. It went so quickly! But as much fun as we all had, we were ready for it to end! We wanted to go back to sleeping in our own beds! I wanted to go back to being clean and having clean kids! I couldn't wait to get back to all the work and homestuff that had been on the back burner for weeks, but I was totally dreading it at the same time.

On the last day of our trip, we were woken up by Julianna at 6 a.m. I heard her say her very first sentence!

"No, I don't want to!" she said it as clear as day...several times in a row! I thought at first it was Angel talking in her sleep, but no, it was the baby imitating what she had heard Angel say through the whole trip! She then proceeded to go through her entire vocabulary for our benefit: "Ball! Bo-Bo! Up, Down! Hot...hot hot. (we'd been trying to teach her this because of our campfire) HI! Bye bye." It was so funny to hear her testing all her new words. She's said them a few times since, but not regularly. Now that's she's home, she's back to pointing and grunting to get what she wants. *sigh* I need to take away her bo-bo so she'll talk. I need to get back to teaching her baby signs. The only word she says consistently EVERYDAY is "Ball!"

That morning at 7 a.m., I woke up all the kids and we walked down across the highway to Silver Lake. (We let Daddy sleep in) We took a nice leisurely 2 hr walk around the shores of silver lake through a wilderland of marshes and wetlands. It was a nice boardwalk over the marshes, with lots of signs labeling different plants and animals. I wish that we had brought our nature notebooks from our homeschool so we could do some sketches. But as it was, the kids had a terrific time spotting birds, ducks, fish, spider webs , and other plant and animal life.

When we came back to camp, we packed everything up and took one more fun trip. We went across the street from Seaquest State Park, and we visited the official Mt St. Helens visitors center. Out of the different museums we checked out, this was the kids favorite, because it has a model volcano to crawl through! The have a clever display that makes it look like you are looking into a magma chamber miles below the earth's surface. My kids were so impressed! At first Courtney was entirely freaked out, so sure that the lava down there was REAL.

Our drive home only took 2.5 hours, and it was so great to be back! It was not so great to deal with the overwhelming piles of laundry, however. I was only home 30 minutes before I drove Courtney to her first Gymnastics lessosns. Back to homeschool and the old grindstone!

This was a wonderful family camping trip, and it was really neat to visit some places with our kids for the first time! I really loved exploring more of the wondrous sites to see so close to home!!!